Anu ba talaga ang halaga ng buhay???!!!

Christians/Godly Peoples - To serve God and fellows.

In love Person - To love his/her beloved till the end.

Businessmen - To Invest, and make your ascendants’ future secured.

Soldier -  Ready to die, to fight and to guard.

EasyGoLuckies -  Just Relax, Follow the flow of current.

Scientists - To discover( Actually they are not discovering.. they are just describing)

For Me - Syntax Error

Dressed to Kill by NFG- Music Video

Dressed to Kill

The story of the music video is GREAT!!! ,  and also the song itself

Listen and watch for the whole music and I’m pretty sure you’ll like it too. ROCKS!!!

Watch it here: Dressed to Kill

Love Myths

Here is what relationship experts think about the tried, but not always true, love sayings.
1. Say “I Love You” Every Day

Barbara De Angelis, personal-development expert: Say it as often as possible. There’s no reason to be emotionally stingy with the person you love.

Nancy Kalish, psychologist: I agree that it should be said often, but it should be said sincerely, so it means something. Not just “Good-bye. Love you.”

2. Play Hard to Get

Sam Yagan, dating-website cofounder: Playing hard to get starts the relationship off on a deceptive foot. If you want your relationship to be based on trust, honesty, and communication, why would you begin it like that?

Greg Behrendt, coauthor of He’s Just Not That Into You: You shouldn’t play hard to get; you should be hard to get, because your life is so busy and fulfilling. My wife and I call it being a MOD―a moving object of desire.

Tip: Trying something new will give you the boost of energy you need to stay busy.

3. Your Spouse Shouldn’t Be Your Best Friend

Pepper Schwartz, sociologist: I agree. I think you’re asking a lot of your marriage to have the level of confidentiality, truthfulness, and disclosure that a best friendship has. Your marriage can fulfill only so many roles.

De Angelis: I disagree. If your spouse isn’t your best friend, then what is he? I think it’s important that you not only love him but like him a lot, too.

John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus: I have no problem with partners who are best friends, but you should have other close friends to confide in as well―especially when you are having relationship difficulties and need time away from your spouse. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

Tip: Give your relationship a rest every once in a while and make time to be with friends.

4. Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

De Angelis: A little bit of absence can help you appreciate your partner. Too much is dangerous. Relationships need connection, and it’s challenging to stay connected when you aren’t spending time together.

Schwartz: To a point―and then absence makes the heart go roaming. You need a steady diet of intimacy and the other person’s presence to remember why you’re in the relationship. If you don’t see each other often enough, you can start to lead parallel lives instead of lives that intersect.

Yagan: Absence can make the desire and lust for your partner grow. But it can also lead to stress in a relationship, because phone calls or text messages aren’t substitutes for real conversation.

5. You Can Learn to Love Someone

Judy Kuriansky, sex therapist: That’s true, depending on how you define love. You may not have the love-at-first-sight kind of love, but the deep companion kind of love―in terms of trusting each other and being a team―can develop over time.

Behrendt: No, that sounds like settling. I don’t believe in settling, because it’s not fair to the person you’re with or yourself. It’s not like settling on an apartment you don’t love but can live with.

-originally from yahoo by Stacey Colino

Christian and Gloria

Christian and Gloria are the couple in the Greenday’s Opera Album “21st Century Breakdown”.

Gloria  : The Idealist in the story, holding her beliefs and ready to fight for her ideas . She represents hope.

Christian: The Nihilist, and wants everything down. He is destructive and want to change the things around him by his hands. For me, he represents change.

The couples represent the two point of view of people in our century.  Those two seem to be disappearing in their own century.

dalawa

may dalawang klase ng makasalanan daw..

“May Makasalanang nagsisisi”

“At may Makasalanang nagmamalinis”..


UU nga naman..

Sinu aku dun???

Sinu ka sa dalawa??

Sinu-sinu ung mga un??

Ewan!!

ang sagot ni mr. yoso sa sakit ng lipunan…..

sabi nila “baguhin mo daw muna ung sarili mo bago ang lupunan” abay isang milyong lintink..!!!

ayaw ko ngang baguhin ang sarili ko sa ganitong uri ng lipunan… hindi naman na ayaw ko ng self development… hindi naman sa dinidiscourage ko kayo…  pero kung babaguhin mo man ang sarili mo… ito ay aayon parin sa maling sistema ng lipunan….

i.e. binago mo ang sarili mo at ikaw ay naging isang marangal na pulis… ngunit meron paring nakatataas sa iyo na “baluktot” at kahit anong gawin mo… sila ang masusunod.. at hindi ka mapropromote.. kasi ibabase nila un sa palakasan.. kung sino ang malapit sa kanila ung ang ipropromote nila… eh di wala rin diba??

eh anu ba talga ang dapat mong gawin???????

simple lang… isasaainate mo ang lahat ng mga matatanda at itira ung mga sanggol at mga bata… para mamulat sila sa bagong mundo… at mawala ang mga masasamang impluyensya…

- eh masama kayang pumatay!!!!!

ayun lang…..   tanungin mo ang sarili mo kung ano ang dapat mong gawin….

siempre da best parin ung self development with improving the society diba?? pwede naman pagsabayin ung pagbabago sa sarili at pagbabago ng lipunan??  just like joining some societal group, religous group, and many more that you think can develop your personality and the community as well s the whole world!!!!

kaya mo kaya???????????????

Quotes Vs Ravz

1. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..”
kelangan mei effort.. ano iyon motibo lang?? basta nlaman lang niya na mahal mo siya tpos un na??
2. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”
eh panu kung gusto niya sa iba??? tapos hindi siya maligaya sa iyo?? gugustuhin mo pa bang hawakan siya kahit ganun??
3. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”
siyempre hawakan mo muna bago mo bitawan,,, pwede bang bitawan bago hawakan??
pwede rin pla…
4. “Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”
kaya dapat abang ka lang.. malay mo ikaw din ung sasalo pag binitawan siya
5. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”
eh bakit mo ba ginustong dumaan sa elevator??  para hindi mahirapan diba?? konting siksik lang pero hindi ka naman pagod…
6. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”
ehem… eh di dapat alam mo kung cnung lalandiin mo!! ano yun basta manlalandi ka lang?? keya kelangan.. hintayin mo muna kung cnu un..
7. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”
eh panu pag hindi nawala ung pagtingin mo sa kania???
8. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”
eh kung pagiging tanga lang ang dahilan para manatili siya
…..
bakit hindi….
9. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”
cguro nga..
10. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una.”
eh panu pag nalilibugan ka lng pala sa pangalawa??? isip isip….
11. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo.
Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.”
eh bakit ka naman aasa aber??? isipin mo naman minsan ung kalagayan mo…
12. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.”
masarap ang pandesal pag mei cheese…. hehehehe
13. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”
ung ang challenge din.. gawin mo ang lahat para maging priority kania… anu ung hintay ka lang ng hintay???
14. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya.”
kea nga merong extra diba???
15. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”
eh pwede namang humarap ulit diba????
16. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala”
anong klaseng pagtagumpay un?? pagtagumpay ng wala?? eh panu kung pagtagumapay ng walang kasalan.. etc…
17. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan”
kaya bahala ka ng magisip
18. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo.
Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit?
Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”
hindi rin… disisyon mo ung mei kasalanan nun!! kea kelangan mei sarili kang concept sa life….
19. “Pakawalan mo yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sa iyo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”
eh panu kung naging kasiyahan na ung naramdaman mu?? di natin masasabi un..
20. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sa iyo.
Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”
eh di ibig sabihin magtatanga tangahan ka pag mag aalaga ng taong malapit sa iyo???
21. “Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakata kot mahulog…at kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka..”
meron ba pa namang pangalawang asksidente diba???

Yoga conceptz…

What is Yoga

Yoga means yoking to join, ‘unity’ or ‘oneness‘ and is derived from the Sanskrit word yuj, which means to join. The union is between the individual consciousness and the universal consciousness. When the mind is still the individual can experience self that is far greater than the mind, which can lead to possibilities of enlightenment.

Yoga is an ancient science and practice evolving over thousands of years. Working on all aspects of the person, moral, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual it is intended to be incorporated into daily life and work on the most inner and outer aspects of the individual.

Some 2000 years ago a great Indian sage the incarnation of Adesa, Patanjali, wrote the yoga sutras. This astounding work gives the seeker a clear path to follow to reach yoga/union/self-realisation. This is Ashtanga, the eight limbs of yoga:

1. YAMA:(Restraints)
There are five yamas, these are:

Ahimsa- non violence
Is to live life refraining from causing pain to any living being including oneself. Every action, word or thought that causes pain to another, any thought containing anger, greed, lust or attachment is a form of violence.

Satya (truthfulness)
To develop honesty, to avoid deceiving others and oneself. To cultivate truthfulness one would need to avoid exaggeration, rationalism, pretence, and all other variants of deceit.

Asteya (non stealing)
To avoid any misappropriation of any material or non-material things, such as acceptance of undeserved praise or not giving back the money if you were over paid change.

Brahmacarya (control of appetites)
To conserve and redirect sexual energy. Celibacy being an attitude of the mind, purity of thought and word. Also within the action of neither indulging too much in an addictive pattern nor repressing desires.

Aparigraha(non grasping)
To avoid the accumulation of unnecessary possessions. Its purpose is to become free, not from possessions themselves, but from the attachment of them so one is unaffected by their loss or gain.

2. NIYAMAThere are five niyamas, these are:

Sauca (purity)
Cleanliness of the body and purity of the mind. As the body and mind are independent, purification of the body is a way of controlling the mind. External cleanliness on a daily manner, daily bathing, clean clothes, living in a clean house. On a subtle level it is purity of action or selfless.

Santosha (contentment)
More than a passive state of mind. It is a virtue to be actively cultivated in order to free the mind from the effects of pleasure and pain. It is about recognising happiness in the now, not when this or that occurs. Or that it only occurs when pleasant situations are experienced.

Tapas (austerity)

Literally, “to burn” in Yogic tapas to burn off all desires by means of discipline, purification, and penance. When austerity is perfected one achieves control over the body and senses without attachment to the austerities.

Swadhyaya (study)
Self inquiry- reflecting deeply on the question, who am I? Study by oneself or teacher. Study with the necessity to review and evaluate our progress.

Isvarapranidhana (surrender)
Recognition that the limited ego -self is an elusion, channelling of energies towards the realisation of truth. One who sees the self in all beings and who has surrendered the ego of being the doer is the true practitioner of Isvarapranidhana.

3. ASANAThe word is generally translated as posture or seat. The main reason for asana is to prepare and strengthen the body for sitting in meditation for many hours.
Asana is also practised to cultivate strength and flexibility in the body and mind hence improving the endurance and will with regular application. The muscles, tendons and ligaments are activated, skin toned and blood supply and oxygen are moved through the body which helps improves vitality and the health of the vital organs.

Primarily asana is used to stimulant the subtle body. They shift the prana (vital energy) upward aiding in the awakening of the kundalini energy, the great reservoir of spiritual energy situated at the base of the spine.

4. PRANAYAMAPranayama is the fourth limb practised in many forms and is generally defined as breath control but does not necessarily portray the full meaning and purpose of the word. The word pranayama is made up of two roots: prana plus Ayami Prana means vital energy or life force. This force exists within all things. Pranayama is not just breathing excersises providing oxygen to the body; it works on a deeper level. Ayama is referred to as extension or expansion. Pranayama has its mysterious power to soothe and revitalise a tired body, a flagging spirit or an unruly mind. The mind is calmed, rejuvenated and uplifted. Pranayama serves as an important bridge between the outward, active practises of yoga, like asana and the internal surrendering practises that lead us into deeper states of meditation. Incorporating the breath in the inward state of meditation it is not only relating, to the breath for oxygen but the total relevant expansion of the being on more vital energy levels. The pranayama provides the method where by life force can be activated and regulated in order to go beyond the normal boundaries or limitations of the mind to attain a higher state of awareness beyond the mind. The breath is intimately connected with the mind. If the breath is agitated so is the mind. To quiet the mind in order to direct its attention we need to learn to regulate the breath. Pranayama incorporates four aspects of breathing, Pooraka or inhalation, Rechaka or exhalation, Antar kumbhaka or internal breathing control and Bahir Kumbhaka or external breath control. The different practices of pranayama incorporate various techniques, which utilise the four aspects.

5. PRATYAHARA (with drawing the mind from sense perception)Pratyhara is liberation of the senses from the objects that attract them. The word means withdrawal. When the senses are often externalised it means to focus the withdrawal of the senses inwardly to generate greater internal awareness. The first four limbs of the practise are more external and this fifth limb this is the bridge between the inner and outer practises.

The withdrawal of the senses inward cultivates the connection with the self.
Pratyahara can be experienced many practical ways including during an asana practise and focussing on the ujaii breath, or having the eyes shut whilst smelling a rose infused tissue to notice the sensation totally or drinking a cappuccino and notice all the levels of the experience. Pratyahara cultivates the experience of being totally present and fully experiencing what you are experiencing thus creating the link for the last three limbs Dharana, Dhyana and Samadi.

6. DHARANA (concentration)
Dharana the sixth limb of yoga. is concentration. After the mind has been collected unto itself, that is when pratychara has been accomplished, it must be directed toward one object of concentration. This focusing the attention onto a point is Dharana. The word Dharana is derived from the root Dha meaning to hold on to, carry, and support. It refers to holding onto an object in the mind. In Dharana the mind dwells only on the chosen object and is not allowed to wander to other objects. It could be a statue or picture of a deity, a candle, a breathing practise, looking into the sky or a concept that the mind is focussed on eg love, peace etc. This practise is a necessary link with the previous pratyhara and the next stage Dhyana and is quite challenging
This process is about pushing the normal barriers of the mind as the barriers are pushed the notions of what the mind normally perceived are changed. Through this process the mind is cultivated to a state that notices what has been perceived in the past is only a limited perception and often with projected conceptualised view of what is and what isn’t. Through observing what could be or what the mind experiences form the focussed concentrated meditation , a deeper unstructured state transcends towards a more real view of reality than projected self -construct conceptualisations of reality. In this state you can become a bit more objective about the thoughts in the mind.
Reality is just what it is and can not be captured by thinking. You are not necessarily what the mind thinks you are just bits of the conceptualised thought process. The more Dharana is practised the more clarity of thought can be experienced thinking the mind to an abstract state of seeing the possibilities of deeper dimensions and all things aren’t as they may initially appear and all minds think about things differently, there is only one reality that we experience differently .
The practise is usually experienced sitting in a comfortable position the legs don’t have to be crossed the eyes closed taking long slow breaths. The process is not to analyse the object of focus but hold the object or query steadily infront of you to eventually unlock the divinity within which converts form to many, the human spirit from the confines of the body mind, intellect and ego. The practise sets up the focus of the mind for meditation and the state of going beyond the mind to identify with the enlightened pathway living the life of the ordinary which go beyond extraordinary.

7. DHYANA (meditation)
The word Dhyana is derived from the root dhi, meaning “intellect”. Meditation is a technique to stop the thoughts and still the mind, it is a deeper rest than relaxation and practised regularly can generate profound change and experience of the true self beyond the trappings of the mind. Through practise and various techniques the witness consciousness can be experienced. With time you cultivate witness consciousness and gain the experience of going beyond thought and reawakening the intuition, higher self or inner wisdom and greater energy in the mind to improve memory and general health.

8. SAMADHI (superconciousness)
Samadhi is not a quality that can be taught, and it is not a state that can be undertaken by simply deciding to do it.

Samadhi - understanding enlightenment - is the final limb of the eight limbs of yoga. The word is derived from the Sam(together) a (completely) dha (to hold) thus to hold together completely. Samadhi is hard to translate, but certainly refers to a changed state of being that might arise from a yogic way of working the mind. Samadhi is the state of wisdom absorption, a transformed state. One who is out of the state of the cravings of polarised thinking, beyond the interplay of world energies clear understanding of the self and obstacles .
It is a state of being beyond the thoughts, a state that is essentially you, yet is much greater than you, beyond name and form. A state that takes you into the now, you cannot find the present moment if you are caught in your mind. The awareness of being between the state of mind and no -mind the state of stillness .The awareness of finding the pure state the bliss realm.